My Birth Plan

My Birth Plan: Hubby will catch the baby.

Haha. Yes that is it. By birth number three I realize the danger in trying to control and force things to happen your way. Just let the baby and God lead the way and things will go much smoother. But based on questions I have gotten from a few people I thought I would run through the details of how this home birth is going to and I think it will help me to run through it in my head and visualize it as far as possible.

So my midwife has already visited my house so that she knows where it is. She brought a bag of supplies to leave here. It looks like a bunch of medical supplies you would get from the hospital. Mostly protective absorbent pads for the birth area (like the bed), depends (as opposed to messing with the annoying mesh panties and bulky pad), surgical gloves, squeezy water bottle, nose sucker, etc. She will bring more medical equipment with her at the birth such as oxygen tank (for baby), scale and measuring equipment. She will prepared to deal with excessive bleeding or tearing. She has two assistants, one of which I have gotten to know pretty well and will be coming at my request.
When I am seriously thinking I am in labor, first I will get hubby home (if he is at work), and then probably call the midwife just to tell her what is happening. She and I will guess how close I am and whether she should come then or if I should call her later. I will pawn my two kids off on my mom who will be staying here for 3 weeks. She will focus solely on them. I have the option to pick up a birthing pool from the midwife at my next appointment, but have decided not to use one, as I think the shower would be more soothing to me and keep the heat better. Plus the bathroom is right off the bedroom, where I plan to do the laboring and delivery. Also with my last delivery take barely an hour and a half, I am not sure that we would even get it set up and filled in time to do any good. I haven't picked a specific position or location - I guess the baby will come whenever it is ready. I just know I don't want to be lying on my back. I am looking forward to being able to try a bunch of different positions based on comfort and just see what works.
After the birth the midwife and her assistant stay here for several hours until baby and I are definitely stable. They clean everything up and do the laundry :) They won't really be hanging around in my face the whole time. They will just be at the house if and when needed.
I have called the baby's pediatrician who said to just call them after the baby is born and then bring the baby in a few days after birth for a check-up. But the midwife does a thorough check-up at birth and also a home visit a few days and two weeks after the birth.

Hubby and I are both more calm about this birth than either one before. I wouldn't have thought how liberating skipping the part where you have to drive to and get settled in at the hospital would be, especially with short labors like mine. It is so nice to not have to stress "Is this it?" every time I start having contractions. So nice to not have to go to the hospital just in case it is the real deal and then just start getting pumped with Pitocin because they don't really care if it is the real deal or not. If you're there, you are going to have the baby. (At least that is what happened with my first birth - at 12 days early).
Oh I am so excited to meet the little one - and find out if it is a boy or a girl already!! I will let you all know how it went in a few weeks :)